my wife is a strong independent woman, self made, very successfulHaumana wrote: ↑Thu Aug 12, 2021 7:32 amI get that. I also get that there has to be a captain of the ship. I didn't always know that but that was an overreaction to my upbringing but I know that now. But I knew that always in a way and that is why my mother and sister resent me to this very day. I am what they could not ever be on their best days,Smitty-48 wrote: ↑Thu Aug 12, 2021 7:26 am
even just the idea of Jesus is enough
if you just follow the idea, you are saved
even if you don't have conviction, it is evolutionary biology
you need to ascend the male dominance hierarchy to be happy, you need to be the man
Jesus is the ultimate Alpha, leading the apex predator males from the darkness to the light
at work, she is a boss bitch
but a woman wants a husband to make the command decisions at home
she lives to make you happy, she wants you to tell her how you want it, so she can make it happen
if you have a man who cannot lead, or will not lead, that creates a void in the household
and that is when things go wrong, spin out of control
the family will drift into a shoals without a husband who leads
it's never the wife's fault, it is on the man to be the leader
that is our role, evolutionary biology
this is what I tried to get Michael to understand, but when I pushed him, he just lashed out at me & my wife
if he had just lashed out at me, I could have given that a pass
but when he dragged my wife into it, he was done