What happened

[Smitty-48]

even just the idea of Jesus is enough

if you just follow the idea, you are saved

even if you don't have conviction, it is evolutionary biology

you need to ascend the male dominance hierarchy to be happy, you need to be the man

Jesus is the ultimate Alpha, leading the apex predator males from the darkness to the light

I get that. I also get that there has to be a captain of the ship. I didn't always know that but that was an overreaction to my upbringing but I know that now. But I knew that always in a way and that is why my mother and sister resent me to this very day. I am what they could not ever be on their best days,

my wife is a strong independent woman, self made, very successful

at work, she is a boss bitch

but a woman wants a husband to make the command decisions at home

she lives to make you happy, she wants you to tell her how you want it, so she can make it happen

if you have a man who cannot lead, or will not lead, that creates a void in the household

and that is when things go wrong, spin out of control

the family will drift into a shoals without a husband who leads

it's never the wife's fault, it is on the man to be the leader

that is our role, evolutionary biology

this is what I tried to get Michael to understand, but when I pushed him, he just lashed out at me & my wife

if he had just lashed out at me, I could have given that a pass

but when he dragged my wife into it, he was done

[StCapps]

men battle test their relationships

they aren't afraid to lose fake friends

they want a small tight knit group with a real bond

these relationships can survive the strain, fake ones cannot

they talk shit to each other's faces, and say nice things behind their back

women talk nice to each other's faces, and talk shit behind their back

women do not battle test their relationships

they are afraid to lose fake friends

they want a large loose knit group, maor facebook "friends"

because they know most of their facebook "friendships" are fake

and they don't know which friendship they think are real

that are really fake, because of the above dynamic

and they don't want to find out because they are often disappointed


Michael and Grumpy are the chicks here

that's why they invoke "facebook" friends as if they are real

and have no conception of what a real friend is

[Smitty-48]

men battle test their relationships

they aren't afraid to lose fake friends

they want a small tight knit group with a real bond

these relationships can survive the strain, fake ones cannot

they talk shit to each other's faces, and say nice things behind their back

women talk nice to each other's faces, and talk shit behind their back

women do not battle test their relationships

they are afraid to lose fake friends

they want a large loose knit group, maor facebook "friends"

because they know most of their facebook "friendships" are fake

and they don't know which friendship they think are real

that are really fake, because of the above dynamic

and they don't want to find out because they are often disappointed


Michael and Grumpy are the chicks here

that's why they invoke "facebook" friends as if they are real

and have no conception of what a real friend is

Word.

[DrYouth]

Well for a couple of manly dudes you sure keep lashing out about your grievances....
Seems like you are griping like a couple of bitches yourself.
Almost like you want to bait a bitch into a bitch slapping contest.


But na...
I'm good.
I said my piece.
And mostly I agree.
What doesn't kill us makes us stronger.
The lord works in mysterious ways.

Its Smitty's trust in the lord and his willingness to see the good in his marriage that kept me hooked.
Maybe he was stringing me along as he says, but I learned plenty.
I don't have regrets.

I don't need him to be a friend.
He's his own man.
But I don't need him as an enemy neither.

So if y'all want to hang around this raft.
This piece of driftwood loosed from the bowels of the DCF.
I'm hanging around.

Bygones be bygones.
But no bro hugs.
Fuck that shit.

[StCapps]

Michael started this thread

to sow division

he tells his sob story

with the intention

to get everyone fighting with each other

and to play the victim for sympathy

thinking that you all will fall for it

and feel sorry for him

he's the chick in the mix

he doesn't know or respect a code of honor

it's all backstabbing conceit

he's a coward too afraid to face things heads on

so he tries to pull the strings behind the scenes

all Ferengi and no Klingon

[Smitty-48]

Well for a couple of manly dudes you sure keep lashing out about your grievances....
Seems like you are griping like a couple of bitches yourself.
Almost like you want to bait a bitch into a bitch slapping contest.

you're the bitch who started the thread

telling a sob story, playing the victim, sowing dissent, trying to divide & conquer

this is why you failed the friendship test

[DrYouth]

His last name is no secret though. Michael gave up the ghost when he posted about his FB post on Martyrmade. He doxed himself, took me all of 2 minutes to find his profile. *shrug

It's cool Haumama...

I'm not trying to hide anything here, obviously.

Don't lurk... just send me a friend request...

[Smitty-48]

Bygones be bygones.
But no bro hugs.
Fuck that shit.

nobody wants to bro hug with you
nobody is asking for anything from you
you're not on the team, you failed selection

[StCapps]

His last name is no secret though. Michael gave up the ghost when he posted about his FB post on Martyrmade. He doxed himself, took me all of 2 minutes to find his profile. *shrug

It's cool Haumama...

I'm not trying to hide anything here, obviously.

Don't lurk... just send me a friend request...

maor facebook "friends"

chick in the mix

[Smitty-48]

chick in the mix