I did for a little while, but I’ve pretty much given up on women. Far more trouble than they’re worth, tbh.Haumana wrote: Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:12 amLucky you. I didn't call it anything, you did. I'm just wondering. So are either of you out banging others? Open relationship?SuburbanFarmer wrote: Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:07 am
Meh, call it whatever, but it certainly wasn’t love. And 2 of them are twins
Happened to a whole lot of men throughout history. Some make the best of it, and most run off. I don’t run until I feel they’d be ok without me in the home.
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Obvious troll is too obvious.StCapps wrote: Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:10 amsounds more like you are afraid she'll find a real manSuburbanFarmer wrote: Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:05 amNah, the concern is more about what kind of idiot she brings in to live with my kids. I’m sure you didn’t manage even to think that far ahead, but how would you like someone smacking your kids around while you’re not there? Or worse?StCapps wrote: Thu Aug 12, 2021 10:59 am staying in a clearly toxic relationship
isn't good for kids
either fix the relationship
or find a better one
only if it isn't possible to do either
should you settle for the current status quo
stop acting like you are doing your kids a favor
by only showing them a terrible relationship as an example to emulate
that is not the way, if it can be helped
you fucked up
but you don't have to continue to fuck up
and pretend it's some virtue
to make it even worse
be a man
who is a better example for the kids
when instead you could be that man yourself
and show them a good example of a relationship to emulate
you're just too much of a pussy to do so
the man is the leader, not some basket case of woman who resents your weakness
this relationship is your fault, take some responsibility, Captain Responsibility
try actually leading for a change, instead of forcing her to do something she hates and resents you for making her do
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That’s what she hates most about me. I don’t bow to her whims. Calm and steady hand on the tiller, but she doesn’t meet my standards as a woman. Not even close. She let herself go completely, and isn’t interested in trying.StCapps wrote: Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:16 am weak men drive women to insanity
tame the shrew, nigga
Shakespeare knows
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Tame the ShrewSuburbanFarmer wrote: Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:17 amObvious troll is too obvious.StCapps wrote: Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:10 amsounds more like you are afraid she'll find a real manSuburbanFarmer wrote: Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:05 am
Nah, the concern is more about what kind of idiot she brings in to live with my kids. I’m sure you didn’t manage even to think that far ahead, but how would you like someone smacking your kids around while you’re not there? Or worse?
who is a better example for the kids
when instead you could be that man yourself
and show them a good example of a relationship to emulate
you're just too much of a pussy to do so
the man is the leader, not some basket case of woman who resents your weakness
this relationship is your fault, take some responsibility, Captain Responsibility
try actually leading for a change, instead of forcing her to do something she hates and resents you for making her do
or at least try
if that doesn't work
find another girl
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that's not what she hates mostSuburbanFarmer wrote: Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:19 amThat’s what she hates most about me. I don’t bow to her whims. Calm and steady hand on the tiller, but she doesn’t meet my standards as a woman. Not even close. She let herself go completely, and isn’t interested in trying.StCapps wrote: Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:16 am weak men drive women to insanity
tame the shrew, nigga
Shakespeare knows
she hates that you don't try
so she followed your lead
and stopped trying
you did that
you are sitting around waiting for her to go first and try
before you put in any effort
that's not how are women are built
you have to go first
she isn't the leader, you are
she is the follower, who resents your refusal to lead the relationship
and resents having to lead in the vacuum that is your relationship
you either made her crazy, or are making her more crazy than she otherwise would be
either way, not good for the kids
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Fair enough.SuburbanFarmer wrote: Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:17 am
I did for a little while, but I’ve pretty much given up on women. Far more trouble than they’re worth, tbh.
I don't know what the fuck Capps is talking about. I think he is way over his skis. All hopped up on some Youth adrenochrome. Dial it back already. Never had it, not yet did it. Always the fuckers that have nothing to tell those who have something on how they should have done it.
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not when you find your soulmateSuburbanFarmer wrote: Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:17 am I did for a little while, but I’ve pretty much given up on women. Far more trouble than they’re worth, tbh.
I dated more girls than I can even remember now, I only fell madly in love with one
thus why I pray for you, because in your case finding true love will require a miracle
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doing what he is doingHaumana wrote: Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:26 amFair enough.SuburbanFarmer wrote: Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:17 am
I did for a little while, but I’ve pretty much given up on women. Far more trouble than they’re worth, tbh.
I don't know what the fuck Capps is talking about. I think he is way over his skis. All hopped up on some Youth adrenochrome. Dial it back already. Never had it, not yet did it. Always the fuckers that have nothing to tell those who have something on how they should have done it.
is working out just great
whatever he does
he shouldn't change up
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Haumana is right, dial it backStCapps wrote: Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:28 amdoing what he is doingHaumana wrote: Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:26 amFair enough.SuburbanFarmer wrote: Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:17 am
I did for a little while, but I’ve pretty much given up on women. Far more trouble than they’re worth, tbh.
I don't know what the fuck Capps is talking about. I think he is way over his skis. All hopped up on some Youth adrenochrome. Dial it back already. Never had it, not yet did it. Always the fuckers that have nothing to tell those who have something on how they should have done it.
is working out just great
whatever he does
he shouldn't change up
Grumpy heard you the first time, no need to belabor
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soulmate is like a utopia. Yeah, we think that shit but have you ever asked your wife if she could fall in love with another? Sobering. If no, then kudos to you. Winning.Smitty-48 wrote: Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:27 amnot when you find your soulmateSuburbanFarmer wrote: Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:17 am I did for a little while, but I’ve pretty much given up on women. Far more trouble than they’re worth, tbh.
I dated more girls than I can even remember now, I only fell madly in love with one
thus why I pray for you, because in your case finding true love will require a miracle
I am not saying that everything is false but I am saying that nothing is set in stone.