What happened

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Re: What happened

Post by SuburbanFarmer » Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:17 am

Haumana wrote:
Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:12 am
SuburbanFarmer wrote:
Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:07 am

Meh, call it whatever, but it certainly wasn’t love. And 2 of them are twins :lol:

Happened to a whole lot of men throughout history. Some make the best of it, and most run off. I don’t run until I feel they’d be ok without me in the home.
Lucky you. I didn't call it anything, you did. I'm just wondering. So are either of you out banging others? Open relationship?
I did for a little while, but I’ve pretty much given up on women. Far more trouble than they’re worth, tbh.
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Re: What happened

Post by SuburbanFarmer » Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:17 am

StCapps wrote:
Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:10 am
SuburbanFarmer wrote:
Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:05 am
StCapps wrote:
Thu Aug 12, 2021 10:59 am
staying in a clearly toxic relationship

isn't good for kids

either fix the relationship

or find a better one

only if it isn't possible to do either

should you settle for the current status quo

stop acting like you are doing your kids a favor

by only showing them a terrible relationship as an example to emulate

that is not the way, if it can be helped


you fucked up

but you don't have to continue to fuck up

and pretend it's some virtue

to make it even worse

be a man
Nah, the concern is more about what kind of idiot she brings in to live with my kids. I’m sure you didn’t manage even to think that far ahead, but how would you like someone smacking your kids around while you’re not there? Or worse?
sounds more like you are afraid she'll find a real man

who is a better example for the kids

when instead you could be that man yourself

and show them a good example of a relationship to emulate

you're just too much of a pussy to do so

the man is the leader, not some basket case of woman who resents your weakness

this relationship is your fault, take some responsibility, Captain Responsibility

try actually leading for a change, instead of forcing her to do something she hates and resents you for making her do
Obvious troll is too obvious.
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Re: What happened

Post by SuburbanFarmer » Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:19 am

StCapps wrote:
Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:16 am
weak men drive women to insanity

tame the shrew, nigga

Shakespeare knows
That’s what she hates most about me. I don’t bow to her whims. Calm and steady hand on the tiller, but she doesn’t meet my standards as a woman. Not even close. She let herself go completely, and isn’t interested in trying.
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Re: What happened

Post by StCapps » Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:20 am

SuburbanFarmer wrote:
Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:17 am
StCapps wrote:
Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:10 am
SuburbanFarmer wrote:
Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:05 am


Nah, the concern is more about what kind of idiot she brings in to live with my kids. I’m sure you didn’t manage even to think that far ahead, but how would you like someone smacking your kids around while you’re not there? Or worse?
sounds more like you are afraid she'll find a real man

who is a better example for the kids

when instead you could be that man yourself

and show them a good example of a relationship to emulate

you're just too much of a pussy to do so

the man is the leader, not some basket case of woman who resents your weakness

this relationship is your fault, take some responsibility, Captain Responsibility

try actually leading for a change, instead of forcing her to do something she hates and resents you for making her do
Obvious troll is too obvious.
Tame the Shrew

or at least try

if that doesn't work

find another girl
*yip*

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Re: What happened

Post by StCapps » Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:21 am

SuburbanFarmer wrote:
Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:19 am
StCapps wrote:
Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:16 am
weak men drive women to insanity

tame the shrew, nigga

Shakespeare knows
That’s what she hates most about me. I don’t bow to her whims. Calm and steady hand on the tiller, but she doesn’t meet my standards as a woman. Not even close. She let herself go completely, and isn’t interested in trying.
that's not what she hates most

she hates that you don't try

so she followed your lead

and stopped trying

you did that

you are sitting around waiting for her to go first and try

before you put in any effort

that's not how are women are built

you have to go first

she isn't the leader, you are

she is the follower, who resents your refusal to lead the relationship

and resents having to lead in the vacuum that is your relationship

you either made her crazy, or are making her more crazy than she otherwise would be

either way, not good for the kids
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Re: What happened

Post by Haumana » Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:26 am

SuburbanFarmer wrote:
Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:17 am

I did for a little while, but I’ve pretty much given up on women. Far more trouble than they’re worth, tbh.
Fair enough.

I don't know what the fuck Capps is talking about. I think he is way over his skis. All hopped up on some Youth adrenochrome. Dial it back already. Never had it, not yet did it. Always the fuckers that have nothing to tell those who have something on how they should have done it.

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Re: What happened

Post by Smitty-48 » Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:27 am

SuburbanFarmer wrote:
Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:17 am
I did for a little while, but I’ve pretty much given up on women. Far more trouble than they’re worth, tbh.
not when you find your soulmate

I dated more girls than I can even remember now, I only fell madly in love with one

thus why I pray for you, because in your case finding true love will require a miracle
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Re: What happened

Post by StCapps » Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:28 am

Haumana wrote:
Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:26 am
SuburbanFarmer wrote:
Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:17 am

I did for a little while, but I’ve pretty much given up on women. Far more trouble than they’re worth, tbh.
Fair enough.

I don't know what the fuck Capps is talking about. I think he is way over his skis. All hopped up on some Youth adrenochrome. Dial it back already. Never had it, not yet did it. Always the fuckers that have nothing to tell those who have something on how they should have done it.
doing what he is doing

is working out just great

whatever he does

he shouldn't change up
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Re: What happened

Post by Smitty-48 » Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:32 am

StCapps wrote:
Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:28 am
Haumana wrote:
Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:26 am
SuburbanFarmer wrote:
Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:17 am

I did for a little while, but I’ve pretty much given up on women. Far more trouble than they’re worth, tbh.
Fair enough.

I don't know what the fuck Capps is talking about. I think he is way over his skis. All hopped up on some Youth adrenochrome. Dial it back already. Never had it, not yet did it. Always the fuckers that have nothing to tell those who have something on how they should have done it.
doing what he is doing

is working out just great

whatever he does

he shouldn't change up
Haumana is right, dial it back

Grumpy heard you the first time, no need to belabor
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Re: What happened

Post by Haumana » Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:33 am

Smitty-48 wrote:
Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:27 am
SuburbanFarmer wrote:
Thu Aug 12, 2021 11:17 am
I did for a little while, but I’ve pretty much given up on women. Far more trouble than they’re worth, tbh.
not when you find your soulmate

I dated more girls than I can even remember now, I only fell madly in love with one

thus why I pray for you, because in your case finding true love will require a miracle
soulmate is like a utopia. Yeah, we think that shit but have you ever asked your wife if she could fall in love with another? Sobering. If no, then kudos to you. Winning.

I am not saying that everything is false but I am saying that nothing is set in stone.