She is the archetype, you want to go younger tho, she's a little old to be making babies with
If she just has a boyfriend, there's something holding her back there, what could it be ?
She is the archetype, you want to go younger tho, she's a little old to be making babies with
You should have thought about damage control before you knocked up the wrong chick, let alone every subsequent knocking up a woman you are in a loving relationship. Now you are trapped, trying to prevent an inevitable messy divorce, that you won't be able to shelter them from foreverSuburbanFarmer wrote: ↑Mon Apr 13, 2020 11:45 pmThe idea is that they’ll be a lot less jaded than growing up with a bitchy mother that sees them on weekends, or their grandparents. I’m not Gods gift to parenting, but I am definitely a positive influence on them.StCapps wrote: ↑Mon Apr 13, 2020 11:41 pmAn example being set of a loveless marriage, not great, bob
That makes the kids less trusting and more likely to believe that they have to settle because they don't have their parents showing them a loving long lasting relationship is possible, so they are more likely to doubt the existence of it
A father who won't give up on a marriage that is in rough shape is admirable and all, but when there is no hope of salvaging any love from the situation, that's going to lead to them being more jaded as a result
Don’t really need your advice, but the world changes when you meet your son.
Not sure, but my hunch is that she doesn't want to have kids, and if she does the clock is ticking
The key is not get trapped in that situation in the first place, and if you do, don't make it worse by making the same mistake over and over again with the wrong woman and keep knocking her up, like wtf?Montegriffo wrote: ↑Mon Apr 13, 2020 11:47 pmOh make up your minds.StCapps wrote: ↑Mon Apr 13, 2020 11:41 pmAn example being set of a loveless marriage, not great, bob
That makes the kids less trusting and more likely to believe that they have to settle because they don't have their parents showing them a loving long lasting relationship is possible, so they are more likely to doubt the existence of it
A father who won't give up on a marriage that is in rough shape is admirable and all, but when there is no hope of salvaging any love from the situation, that's going to lead to them being more jaded as a result
Are you against single mothers or not.
If a man wants to stay with the wrong woman for the sake of his kids then good for him
More than ticking, if she's mid forties she missed the boatStCapps wrote: ↑Mon Apr 13, 2020 11:51 pmNot sure, but my hunch is that she doesn't want to have kids, and if she does the clock is ticking
Indeed, I just have to find my diamond in the rough, a Gen X style personality only with the youth to go with it, sacred baby factory ftwSmitty-48 wrote: ↑Mon Apr 13, 2020 11:57 pmMore than ticking, if she's mid forties she missed the boat
If you want a sacred baby factory, you want to go as young as possible within reason
It's also a win-win when you get to my age and your wife is almost seven years youngerStCapps wrote: ↑Tue Apr 14, 2020 12:03 amIndeed, I just have to find my diamond in the rough, a Gen X style personality only with the youth to go with it, sacred baby factory ftw
That's around the sweet spot, not too young so they actually have time to develop a personality, while still being at peak cuteness and having plenty left in the hour glass