Brutal. Mine wanted to make it to his 50th wedding anniversary. This was in early November, anniversary was not till April. (Next week, I think) I was like "Umm, can we set a milestone just a tad earlier? How about Christmas?"
Your mention of Antipasto had me in the kitchen to cutoff some Molinari Salame. I brought home two 3 pound sticks for the wife from my last trip over to mainland. Salame, Sourdough and Dungeness Crabs are what we miss most from the Bay Area. Besides our favorite pizza spots.