This does make me sad and wonder how this is the fault of females. I'm not this woman; nor are most. Again with the ewwww. To have sex with a woman without realizing babies were an option and not wanting her while that was happening... this is my fault, how?SuburbanFarmer wrote: ↑Fri Jun 08, 2018 9:37 pm
I don't want to live without being around them, and most likely, I wouldn't be able to see them more than 2 days a week, while I'm working to support them. Also, yes, I'm not sure that I could even afford to do so, while paying for them. Then there's the remote possibility that she moves some other sucker into the house, and I can't protect them. So.... I guess I'm here as a warning to others.
This is what it means to "take responsibility". It's asking a hell of a lot more than people tend to think, when they discuss it.
Assholes are assholes. Gender is irrelevant. Depending on the cultural swing, courts side with women or men, depending. Maybe don't marry and procreate with an asshole? dunno/ decided not to have kids when I realized I'm too selfish to provide that. I strongly appreciate those who do and do not chastise those who would rather not. Not everyone is cut out of parent and not everyone is cut out to promote forward progress.