My entire life is built around personal responsibility now. Not terribly surprising that you can’t see that.Smitty-48 wrote: ↑Thu Aug 12, 2021 10:21 amI don't see you as being in a position to judge, since I don't find you to be a paragon of personal responsibilitySuburbanFarmer wrote: ↑Thu Aug 12, 2021 10:11 amTotal lack of personal responsibility. Who saw that coming?
I don't see what self respecting man would ever want to follow the life you lead
it is what it is, you're welcome to it, but I don't think it is something to aspire to
What happened
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you take no responsibility for your broken relationship with your baby mamaSuburbanFarmer wrote: ↑Thu Aug 12, 2021 10:24 amMy entire life is built around personal responsibility now. Not terribly surprising that you can’t see that.Smitty-48 wrote: ↑Thu Aug 12, 2021 10:21 amI don't see you as being in a position to judge, since I don't find you to be a paragon of personal responsibilitySuburbanFarmer wrote: ↑Thu Aug 12, 2021 10:11 amTotal lack of personal responsibility. Who saw that coming?
I don't see what self respecting man would ever want to follow the life you lead
it is what it is, you're welcome to it, but I don't think it is something to aspire to
it's an "it's all her fault" sob story
meanwhile you refuse to lead the relationship and she resents you for it
doing your kids a real solid there, Grumpychick
showing them a prime example of a toxic relationship
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Smitty-48 wrote: ↑Thu Aug 12, 2021 7:37 amHear, Hear.Haumana wrote: ↑Thu Aug 12, 2021 7:32 ammy wife is a strong independent woman, self made, very successful
at work, she is a boss bitch
but a woman wants a husband to make the command decisions at home
she lives to make you happy, she wants you to tell her how you want it, so she can make it happen
if you have a man who cannot lead, or will not lead, that creates a void in the household
and that is when things go wrong, spin out of control
the family will drift into a shoals without a husband who leads
it's never the wife's fault, it is on the man to be the leader
that is our role, evolutionary biology
this is what I tried to get Michael to understand, but when I pushed him, he just lashed out at me & my wife
if he had just lashed out at me, I could have given that a pass
but when he dragged my wife into it, he was done
Sometimes it cracks me up that my woman doesn't want to be the wife. She does but she doesn't. But she sure as shit doesn't want control of the helm. Took me a bit of time to learn that. I have to give her that look, "eh, I don't have tits and all of these creatures aren't looking to suckle from me." Her hardest lesson is that if she were to be gone, everything and everybody would be fine, they would just have to convert over to a dude's schedule. Which isn't the same but not figuring it out isn't an option for any of us.
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you have the baby momma definition of personal responsibilitySuburbanFarmer wrote: ↑Thu Aug 12, 2021 10:24 amMy entire life is built around personal responsibility now. Not terribly surprising that you can’t see that.Smitty-48 wrote: ↑Thu Aug 12, 2021 10:21 amI don't see you as being in a position to judge, since I don't find you to be a paragon of personal responsibilitySuburbanFarmer wrote: ↑Thu Aug 12, 2021 10:11 amTotal lack of personal responsibility. Who saw that coming?
I don't see what self respecting man would ever want to follow the life you lead
it is what it is, you're welcome to it, but I don't think it is something to aspire to
you essentially got yourself knocked up
now you are a single mom who has nothing in her life except her children
you are married to your children, it's all you have
that is not what most men aspire to
if your definition of personal responsibility doesn't achieve laudable goals, it's not responsible, it's self sabotage
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Smitty advocates leaving his kids, for personal comfort. Responsibility.Smitty-48 wrote: ↑Thu Aug 12, 2021 10:27 amyou have the baby momma definition of personal responsibilitySuburbanFarmer wrote: ↑Thu Aug 12, 2021 10:24 amMy entire life is built around personal responsibility now. Not terribly surprising that you can’t see that.Smitty-48 wrote: ↑Thu Aug 12, 2021 10:21 am
I don't see you as being in a position to judge, since I don't find you to be a paragon of personal responsibility
I don't see what self respecting man would ever want to follow the life you lead
it is what it is, you're welcome to it, but I don't think it is something to aspire to
you essentially got yourself knocked up
now you are a single mom who has nothing in her life except her children
you are married to your children, it's all you have
that is not what most men aspire to
if your definition of personal responsibility doesn't achieve laudable goals, it's not responsible, it's self sabotage
Next post: ‘but I don’t have kids’
Thank god for that, but you’re still twisted up like a damn pretzel as usual.
Virtue so pure cannot be tainted by mere facts, amirite?
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no, I advocate being a man and finding a wife and having a sacred marriageSuburbanFarmer wrote: ↑Thu Aug 12, 2021 10:31 amSmitty advocates leaving his kids, for personal comfort. Responsibility.Smitty-48 wrote: ↑Thu Aug 12, 2021 10:27 amyou have the baby momma definition of personal responsibilitySuburbanFarmer wrote: ↑Thu Aug 12, 2021 10:24 am
My entire life is built around personal responsibility now. Not terribly surprising that you can’t see that.
you essentially got yourself knocked up
now you are a single mom who has nothing in her life except her children
you are married to your children, it's all you have
that is not what most men aspire to
if your definition of personal responsibility doesn't achieve laudable goals, it's not responsible, it's self sabotage
Next post: ‘but I don’t have kids’
Thank god for that, but you’re still twisted up like a damn pretzel as usual.
Virtue so pure cannot be tainted by mere facts, amirite?
don't have kids out of wedlock in the first place, is the responsible path
find a woman you truly love, and make a family with her, is the responsible path
the path you took, being a male baby momma, is irresponsible in of itself
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Smitty-48 wrote: ↑Thu Aug 12, 2021 10:27 amyou have the baby momma definition of personal responsibilitySuburbanFarmer wrote: ↑Thu Aug 12, 2021 10:24 amMy entire life is built around personal responsibility now. Not terribly surprising that you can’t see that.Smitty-48 wrote: ↑Thu Aug 12, 2021 10:21 am
I don't see you as being in a position to judge, since I don't find you to be a paragon of personal responsibility
I don't see what self respecting man would ever want to follow the life you lead
it is what it is, you're welcome to it, but I don't think it is something to aspire to
you essentially got yourself knocked up
now you are a single mom who has nothing in her life except her children
you are married to your children, it's all you have
that is not what most men aspire to
if your definition of personal responsibility doesn't achieve laudable goals, it's not responsible, it's self sabotage
For legal reasons, we are not threatening to destroy U.S. government property with our glorious medieval siege engine. But if we wanted to, we could. But we won’t. But we could.
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Uggg, could Monty be any more gay? I regret clicking on his response.
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being a single trans baby momma is better for your kids than acting like a man?
nah, you tell yourself that, to justify your shitty life choices
you refuse to admit you fucked up
and are continuing to fuck up
and want to turn failure into success
Hey! Be a Man!
nah, you tell yourself that, to justify your shitty life choices
you refuse to admit you fucked up
and are continuing to fuck up
and want to turn failure into success
Hey! Be a Man!
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