SilverEagle wrote:Ah....so you went through a divorce and that's why you're so bitter towards middle aged women. Did she cheat on you?Speaker to Animals wrote:Honestly, though.. Sex with significantly younger women is obviously better for us on a biological level, but the mentality of most of them is just too off for a decent relationship.
Most women cheat. Cheating is rampant with them. Not sure if she cheated while we were married, though I suspect she must have. Nor is it bitterness towards middle-aged women. I truly feel sorry for them.
In any case, that whole narrative of the cheating husband is just that. Research shows the predominant cheaters in our species are females, and probably always has been.
The big mistake made by men is in assuming women are like us when they are not.
Those 50 year old women getting pumped and dumped likely rode the cock carousel with abandon before finally settling down in marriage. But the more sex partners a woman has, the less likely she will be able to pair bond. Turns out the madonna-whore dichotomy is not some unfair patriarchal oppression. So these women statistally are the ones most likely to have blown up the marriage, probably after themselves being the unfaithful partner, and now they are condemned to being practice runs for younger men shut out of the young female market by the newly minted successful older men those older women just took advantage of and divorced.
My empathy for them is not even deserved, but I still feel it.