You have to find someone that delivers a good homily. Like my based millennial pastor says "God commanded them to take the gold out of Egypt. They said 'but that gold had been used for idolatry and evil' and God commanded them to take it and use it for good"
In much the same way we can take words of wisdom from a fool or the truth from a liar. The truth is the truth. It will stand on its own merits. Neither a flame can hide a shadow or a shadow hide the flame. Do not seek truth from obscure sources because those are a lie. The truth is hiding in plain sight.
If you want to join the Church I suggest you look for FSSP or SSPX. I'm not going to say any Church will do. But if it is the Church for you it is YOUR Church and never leave it.