My Newspaper Candidates' Forum

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Re: My Newspaper Candidates' Forum

Post by C-Mag » Sat Jul 21, 2018 2:30 pm

The Conservative wrote:
Sat Jul 21, 2018 2:25 pm
Martin Hash wrote:
Sat Jul 21, 2018 2:10 pm
The secret was I was centered in the frame. I could see the camera setup when we walked in.
For TV or photos, yeah. I can see the logic.
No, pretty much all situations. Being the center automatically puts the others on the fringes fighting for attention from everyone else at the table. Just the way it works.

Study up on Leadership, there's a reason Leaders seat themselves at the Center or Head of the table.

I'm a pretty easy going guy at home, my wife and I share responsibilities and authorities. But NO One, Sits in my chair at the head of the Dinner Table, it's also the only chair with arms in the set of chairs.

I know I'll get mocked for that, but I did it purposely.
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Re: My Newspaper Candidates' Forum

Post by The Conservative » Sat Jul 21, 2018 2:47 pm

C-Mag wrote:
Sat Jul 21, 2018 2:30 pm
The Conservative wrote:
Sat Jul 21, 2018 2:25 pm
Martin Hash wrote:
Sat Jul 21, 2018 2:10 pm
The secret was I was centered in the frame. I could see the camera setup when we walked in.
Hence the end of the table, you could easily make that the “head” of the table if you know how to do it.


For TV or photos, yeah. I can see the logic.
No, pretty much all situations. Being the center automatically puts the others on the fringes fighting for attention from everyone else at the table. Just the way it works.

Study up on Leadership, there's a reason Leaders seat themselves at the Center or Head of the table.

I'm a pretty easy going guy at home, my wife and I share responsibilities and authorities. But NO One, Sits in my chair at the head of the Dinner Table, it's also the only chair with arms in the set of chairs.

I know I'll get mocked for that, but I did it purposely.
I agree, center is best, but you can play a power play if you know how to.

Grandfather taught me that, and he negotiated contracts for the government...

And I always look for the chair with arms myself, because for me that’s the defacto power chair of the room, and is normally where people look when they look at the person in power.
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Re: My Newspaper Candidates' Forum

Post by C-Mag » Sat Jul 21, 2018 3:19 pm

I've been blessed to meet two Natural Born Leaders in my life. Doesn't matter where they are in the room, everyone ends up listening to them in the end...…………. and they do it without effort. It's an amazing thing to behold.

For the rest of us, we need to look for advantages if we seek to influence others.

Recently I was on a jury. During the week I kept a little distant, I talked to most the jury a little here and there, friendly to all. But when we went in for deliberation I was in the center seat and started the questioning by asking what we did first, it came to naming a foreman and I was already controlling the situation.

I didn't do it for the power, I did it because I wanted to get a verdict as quickly as possible and I hoped to be able to help keep people focused and on task.
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Re: My Newspaper Candidates' Forum

Post by The Conservative » Sat Jul 21, 2018 3:30 pm

C-Mag wrote:
Sat Jul 21, 2018 3:19 pm
I've been blessed to meet two Natural Born Leaders in my life. Doesn't matter where they are in the room, everyone ends up listening to them in the end...…………. and they do it without effort. It's an amazing thing to behold.

For the rest of us, we need to look for advantages if we seek to influence others.

Recently I was on a jury. During the week I kept a little distant, I talked to most the jury a little here and there, friendly to all. But when we went in for deliberation I was in the center seat and started the questioning by asking what we did first, it came to naming a foreman and I was already controlling the situation.

I didn't do it for the power, I did it because I wanted to get a verdict as quickly as possible and I hoped to be able to help keep people focused and on task.
My grandfather was one of those kinds of people. He walked into a room and he was immediately recognized as someone you didn’t fuck with.

Big shoes to fill... I can tell you that.

Only two people he ever reqlinquished control to. My grandmother, and the SoD.
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Re: My Newspaper Candidates' Forum

Post by clubgop » Sat Jul 21, 2018 5:42 pm

Martin Hash wrote:
Sat Jul 21, 2018 1:33 pm
I picked that seat. No one else was paying attention, and people naturally submit when I’m in Alpha.
What did I tell you? Center of attention, anytime you can take that position take it.

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Re: My Newspaper Candidates' Forum

Post by clubgop » Sat Jul 21, 2018 5:44 pm

C-Mag wrote:
Sat Jul 21, 2018 2:17 pm
Martin Hash wrote:
Sat Jul 21, 2018 2:10 pm
The secret was I was centered in the frame. I could see the camera setup when we walked in.
The Center Chair is the power chair, it's a V, everyone has to look to Martin................. Total Alpha move to take that seat. :dance:

No one else there even knew it, maybe the professor, but he was too slow to see it.

My compliments Martin :clap:
Those are the types of moves that can do stuff for you.
It's exactly what I said in the other video before dirty dick shat it all up.