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by LVH2 » Sun Oct 15, 2017 4:10 pm
I've tried the handcuffs and blindfolds, both ways, but it just seems kind of silly.
Done a simulated rape. It was a long term partner but I was still scared she was filming it to send me to prison. It's not that big a deal. Fantasy rape for women is about the man becoming overwhelmed with desire for them, unable to control himself. It's about as connected to real rape (for most people) as shooting cops in GTA is to doing it in real life.
I like some other rough aspects of sex. It seems weird to me that someone wouldn't like rough sex.
I think it's kind of a natural extension of sex in general. In fact, our concepts of dominance and submission come from sex, not the other way around.
The woman is, at bottom, agreeing to the most painful experience of her life, and a lot of other pain and discomfort over 9 months of her life, to make a kid that is half yours even though you did .0001% of the work. She has a lot of power in selecting her man in our culture, but once she does it's submission.
It might be a selection bias, but I don't think a lot of women want all or even predominantly gentle sex. Standing upright, they want, "you are my beautiful angel and I'm so lucky to have you." Horizontal, they want, "that p belongs to me... say it."
