What y'all up to?

[Martin Hash]

The tingling you feel, that’s wisdom.

[doc_loliday]

Damn Youth, sorry you got some life to deal with. That's some heavy shit right there. I hope it all works out for the best. I think if this is something you both want, you can work it out. Hang tough.

[de officiis]

I'm sitting in a hotel in Atlanta, waiting for tomorrow to be over.

What's cooking in Atlanta de o?

Deposition...

[DrYouth]

I can't imagine doing it. I have been attracted to other women while in a relationship, but the idea of having sex with them is too weird. I think I am built for monogamy. I can only joke about it.

Good for you STA...

This means you are fundamentally a good person.

Maybe don't even joke about it... Don't be ashamed of being a good person...

Being an asshole is nothing to be proud of.

[DrYouth]

Damn Youth, sorry you got some life to deal with. That's some heavy shit right there. I hope it all works out for the best. I think if this is something you both want, you can work it out. Hang tough.

Thanks doc.

I want it...

I think she does too... but she has to make sure I've suffered my share... and to be honest... I get it.

Better to pay my penance in this life.

[Kath]

Damn, dude. Honestly, I can't imagine, which means I can't judge. (Besides, not my place to do so, this is your journey.) Heavy shit - good for you owning it. I'm cheering for you both. Your vacation pics are always amazing. Here's to believing reality can match the vision.

Communication - that's where it starts and ends. Keep the lines open on your end. No two people deal with this the same, but for myself, I imagine if I were done, there'd be no counseling. I'd just be done. That says a lot about where she is, from my POV.

[Montegriffo]

Let me lay this on you... because really y'all are like my best friends... which is an interesting thing for me to admit all on it's own.

That is an interesting thing to admit.
I kinda know what you mean though. I guess it's like that old thing about finding some subjects easier to talk to strangers about.
Hope it works out for you.
TBH it's hard to imagine that you have been an arsehole, you are one of the nicest and most caring of our little community.

[Kath]

TBH it's hard to imagine that you have been an arsehole, you are one of the nicest and most caring of our little community.

Don't sense the asshole part. Sense a person who lost track of the path .... wandered off in a wrong direction.

I need the ocean to remember East v West, so .... I don't judge. We all get distracted along the way. Sometimes forgivable versus not is very blurry. Shades of grey ... never black/white.

(I acknowledge there exist many things that are true/false, but relationship dynamics are rarely that simple.)

[C-Mag]

Let me lay this on you... because really y'all are like my best friends... which is an interesting thing for me to admit all on it's own.

Let's face it crew, we are an island of misfit toys. I've grown to love this little community. We've been through a lot of wild shit together. There is value in that. We should keep that in mind during the next dust up.

[Montegriffo]

TBH it's hard to imagine that you have been an arsehole, you are one of the nicest and most caring of our little community.

Don't sense the asshole part. Sense a person who lost track of the path .... wandered off in a wrong direction.

I need the ocean to remember East v West, so .... I don't judge. We all get distracted along the way. Sometimes forgivable versus not is very blurry. Shades of grey ... never black/white.

(I acknowledge there exist many things that are true/false, but relationship dynamics are rarely that simple.)

I wasn't judging just repeating DrY's own self assessment.