heydaralon wrote:Speaker to Animals wrote:heydaralon wrote:Was she the one who had the sirens? I think that island she kept Odysseus on was on had a bunch of poppy plants and they just shot up all day. It might not have been that one but I swear in the Odyssey there was a Heroin Island. It was an Aegean sea trap house basically.
The Sirens lived on a rock adjacent to the Charybdis monster (the origin of the saying
caught between a rock and a hard place). The Lotus Eaters were a different stop on the journey. Calypso was a beautiful demigod who wanted Odysseus to marry her and choose immortality with her on the island. He still loved his good woman, though, and after a few years of sleeping with Calypso, he petitioned the gods to force her to let him go. Years later Suzanne Vega would write a
song about it.
The moral of the story is that women can use their charms and vag to waylay men for years from their destiny and their ambitions. Think about all the men you knew who had ambitions and dreams while they were single who, after getting married, lost it all as the woman snuffed the life out of the ambitions one-by-one to make everything about her. That kind of woman is a calypso.
Decent women don't try to capture you and hold you back from your dreams. Calypso is like the personification of female selfishness, but she gets it eventually and overcomes the trap to let him go.
Now that you mention it, its a weird contrast when you think of Penelope and Calypso. Penelope was loyal till the end, and she kept all those dudes trying to bang her at bay. She used trickery like Calypso, but she did it for her husband. I think Penelope probably just made up that bow string shit for Oddyseus when he came back when in reality she was taking the train to pound town day in and day out by everyone and their brother. Shit even Telemachus was sucking those titties.
I do have a question for you Speaker: there is a part in the book where Poseidon gets pissed at the crew for disfiguring Polyphemus so he fucks with the ocean and has them just drift around. I thought Poseidon was the sea god. But, there is another part of the book where Helen and her husband talk to a different sea god. It was not Poseidon. I don't really understand how that works. Does Poseidon control one part of the sea and this other god controls the other part, like gang turf? It has been a long time since I fucked with Homer, but he never really explains the god hierarchy. Half the time its just one god fucking with another god using the humans as pawns. How can there be two sea gods?
I am not sure to what scene you refer.
The contrast between Penelope and Calypso was that Penelope let Odysseus go fulfill his destiny. Calypso didn't want to lose him, but she could not be in his life if he fulfilled his destiny and his ambition to return home, so -- like many women -- she would use her charm to keep him somewhat subdued and tried to destroy those those dreams forever so she could possess him. Penelope did not try to possess Odysseus but she had his undying love anyway; whereas Calypso tried to capture and control Odysseus and could not really possess him.
It's actually really common for women to become possessive like that where they will try to alienate the man from his friends, convince him to abandon dreams and ambitions, etc. These women will often try to disguise these efforts as helping him to grow up and become more "responsible", but there is nothing irresponsible about pursuing your dreams. What pisses these women off is that those dreams don't include them. They are basically like Calypsos in a man's life.
There has to be a myth for the inverse of this because I see it just as much with men too. They just are not very good at the manipulation so it becomes a kind of intimidation game.
If you love somebody, you have to let them go. If their dreams and ambitions can include you, then you have a chance. If not, it wasn't meant to be.
Homer was a genius, btw.