I feel different about it in general and on a case by case basis. I don't think a teacher having sex with an 18 student in a public school or college much different. 18 is a decent enough age for them to be considered old enough to be in the military, drive, vote etc. etc. and yea fuck who they want.Fife wrote:Poor, poor, oppressed "teachers." Different issues, indeed.GloryofGreece wrote:What do you suggest we do to a teacher that fucks an 18? I'd argue its not that big of a deal and we pretend that it is. I'd also argue that its not ideal for teaching 100 students a year and have the teacher regularly openly involved with one or some of them. But these are different issues.Okeefenokee wrote:
Example of ethical vs moral. Ethical issue is that you are dealing with a teacher and a student.
How would you feel about a judge fucking an 18 awaiting trial in his court?
How would you feel about a drill instructor fucking an 18 getting through basic training?
How would you feel about a restaurant inspector fucking an 18 whose parents need to keep their fast food place open?
Neck yourself.
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What about a government employee holding a position of authority over the future of a student?GloryofGreece wrote:I feel different about it in general and on a case by case basis. I don't think a teacher having sex with an 18 student in a public school or college much different. 18 is a decent enough age for them to be considered old enough to be in the military, drive, vote etc. etc. and yea fuck who they want.Fife wrote:Poor, poor, oppressed "teachers." Different issues, indeed.GloryofGreece wrote: What do you suggest we do to a teacher that fucks an 18? I'd argue its not that big of a deal and we pretend that it is. I'd also argue that its not ideal for teaching 100 students a year and have the teacher regularly openly involved with one or some of them. But these are different issues.
How would you feel about a judge fucking an 18 awaiting trial in his court?
How would you feel about a drill instructor fucking an 18 getting through basic training?
How would you feel about a restaurant inspector fucking an 18 whose parents need to keep their fast food place open?
Neck yourself.
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It isn't really about the sex, GoG. I thought that was pretty clearly the point Fife was trying to allude to, listing those different examples. A teacher giving either preferential treatment to, blackmailing a student into, or being blackmailed into a more positive student evaluation, grading, etc. may provide anything from a "mere" conflict of interest, at best. And an abuse of authority, at worst.GloryofGreece wrote:I feel different about it in general and on a case by case basis. I don't think a teacher having sex with an 18 student in a public school or college much different. 18 is a decent enough age for them to be considered old enough to be in the military, drive, vote etc. etc. and yea fuck who they want.Fife wrote:Poor, poor, oppressed "teachers." Different issues, indeed.GloryofGreece wrote: What do you suggest we do to a teacher that fucks an 18? I'd argue its not that big of a deal and we pretend that it is. I'd also argue that its not ideal for teaching 100 students a year and have the teacher regularly openly involved with one or some of them. But these are different issues.
How would you feel about a judge fucking an 18 awaiting trial in his court?
How would you feel about a drill instructor fucking an 18 getting through basic training?
How would you feel about a restaurant inspector fucking an 18 whose parents need to keep their fast food place open?
Neck yourself.
If you were a young teacher in a relationship with a 18 year old student, and even if you did not mean to treat her differently than your other students, wouldn't you want to give her a better grade on a paper simply because you'd rather see her smile than get angry or sad....? Rules against teacher-student, defendent-judge, drill instructor-recruit, etc. relationships exist for that reason. To discourage abuses of authority.
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We don't generally issue rape convictions and prison sentences for "abuse of authority" issues. I'm perfectly fine with the teachers being fired. However, this tends to be more of a witch hunt if a male teacher is involved.
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GrumpyCatFace wrote:We don't generally issue rape convictions and prison sentences for "abuse of authority" issues. I'm perfectly fine with the teachers being fired. However, this tends to be more of a witch hunt if a male teacher is involved.
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Uhmm...ok? In what dimension is anyone talking about rape convictions for teachers sleeping with 18 year olds? And you don't issue prison sentences for abuses of authority issues? You don't have laws against corruption, abuse of power, bribery...? That whole legal concept is completely foreign to you? Learn something new every day.GrumpyCatFace wrote:We don't generally issue rape convictions and prison sentences for "abuse of authority" issues.
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The way I see it.. men should get the same punishment that female teachers get. A female teacher who has sex with a 17 year old boy would, at best, get fired and probation.
The penalties you see for women offenders (for all crimes) are likely the more appropriate sentences. Our society is grossly discriminatory against men and demonizes them at every level. This is why men get something like 70% more prison time than women for the same crimes.
I really don't think consensual sex between a 24 year old teacher and a 17 year old student rises to a level comparable to a violent rape. I am not saying it can't damage the students either. I just think we take this shit way too far -- but only when men are the perpetrators. I like to throw the women walking with what in comparison is a slap on the wrist because it shows how unbelievably biased our society and criminal justice system is against men. It illustrates how the feminist view of society is pretty much completely backwards. \\
But in terms of what sentences should be.. either men should be given the same lower sentences as the women, or the women need to be locked in cages for the next fifteen to twenty years like the men. I happen to think, in most cases, the sentences you see for women are likely the most rational, and what you see for men make little sense outside of a gynocentric worldview in which men are utilities to serve women and always should be treated as dangerous creatures.
The penalties you see for women offenders (for all crimes) are likely the more appropriate sentences. Our society is grossly discriminatory against men and demonizes them at every level. This is why men get something like 70% more prison time than women for the same crimes.
I really don't think consensual sex between a 24 year old teacher and a 17 year old student rises to a level comparable to a violent rape. I am not saying it can't damage the students either. I just think we take this shit way too far -- but only when men are the perpetrators. I like to throw the women walking with what in comparison is a slap on the wrist because it shows how unbelievably biased our society and criminal justice system is against men. It illustrates how the feminist view of society is pretty much completely backwards. \\
But in terms of what sentences should be.. either men should be given the same lower sentences as the women, or the women need to be locked in cages for the next fifteen to twenty years like the men. I happen to think, in most cases, the sentences you see for women are likely the most rational, and what you see for men make little sense outside of a gynocentric worldview in which men are utilities to serve women and always should be treated as dangerous creatures.
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Corruption and bribery are part of our government.BjornP wrote:Uhmm...ok? In what dimension is anyone talking about rape convictions for teachers sleeping with 18 year olds? And you don't issue prison sentences for abuses of authority issues? You don't have laws against corruption, abuse of power, bribery...? That whole legal concept is completely foreign to you? Learn something new every day.GrumpyCatFace wrote:We don't generally issue rape convictions and prison sentences for "abuse of authority" issues.
Regardless, this is an ethical issue, if both parties are within the age of consent. It's not a criminal matter, but somehow always turns into one of the teacher was male.
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Careful. Nowadays these could be taken as suggestions.Fife wrote:How would you feel about a judge fucking an 18 awaiting trial in his court?
How would you feel about a drill instructor fucking an 18 getting through basic training?
How would you feel about a restaurant inspector fucking an 18 whose parents need to keep their fast food place open?
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de officiis wrote:Careful. Nowadays these could be taken as suggestions.Fife wrote:How would you feel about a judge fucking an 18 awaiting trial in his court?
How would you feel about a drill instructor fucking an 18 getting through basic training?
How would you feel about a restaurant inspector fucking an 18 whose parents need to keep their fast food place open?
Having been through basic training and seeing what women look like when they don't have makeup caked on their faces and their hair done nicely.. I can right away seem some problems with Fife's intellectual experiment.