If you aren't a pair, you aren't going to last. If you don't share responsibilities, etc, it's not going to last. If you don't treat your woman like a queen, and she treats you like a king, but both of you knock common sense into each other when needed, it won't last.Martin Hash wrote: ↑Tue Mar 29, 2022 11:13 amMarriages change over time: what used to align will ebb & flow. The secret is to make adjustments and wait out the storms, which sometimes last for years: young kids stress, middle-aged crazies, affair temptations, evolving sex-drive, etc. However, if they’re feminists and you’re patriarchy, that can’t last.C-Mag wrote: ↑Tue Mar 29, 2022 10:55 amThat is earned, not given.............. as you well know.Martin Hash wrote: ↑Tue Mar 29, 2022 10:47 am
Men who have wives who treat them as patriarchs are lucky indeed. WW3 is a bitch.
Further, everyone woman will test you from time to time, seeking to gain more control and leverage.
You just have to not budge. I do have to say, after 30 years. My wife doesn't try me anymore.
I'll admit some Luck to finding the right woman, especially first marriage out of the gate.
If you are smart, you talk to that woman about what you want (require) out of life and marriage during the courting phase. Couples that share goals, morals and work habits make unstoppable teams.
The people today getting married want to get married to a twitch streamer, someone who gives all the goodies easy and leaves nothing to the imagination. Today's generation really doesn't understand what it means to work hard for the right person in your life.