What happened

[Smitty-48]

I still plan to. But a 4yo isn’t going to understand that. Someday, but not yet.

I will pray for you

I don't ask the Almighty for anything more for myself

but I will ask for you, I will pray that you find it

I have it, I know what it's like, it's worth giving everything you got to find it

[Haumana]

The answer then is to form a relationship with whatever bar bang you knocked up? Knuckle under and make yourself love someone, no matter what?

Sounds pretty unmanly, tbh, but Lets keep that in mind whenever it happens to you lmao

The mother of your kids (plural) was a bar bang?

[Smitty-48]

my wife & I chose not to have children

that was personal responsibility

we just would not be able to give those children the life that we feel children deserve

instead we have adopted our niece as a surrogate, she has no father, she was raised by a single mom

so she will inherit my estate as if she is my daughter, and she will be a multimillionaire when she does

like whatever some random internet avatar says about me, nobody in my life thinks that of me

and I was on the Canadian forum, and I am very popular there, nobody in Canada thinks that of me

my qualifications speak for me, you don't become a decorated veteran without personal responsibility

[StCapps]

staying in a clearly toxic relationship

isn't good for kids

either fix the relationship

or find a better one

only if it isn't possible to do either

should you settle for the current status quo

stop acting like you are doing your kids a favor

by only showing them a terrible relationship as an example to emulate

that is not the way, if it can be helped


you fucked up

but you don't have to continue to fuck up

and pretend it's some virtue

to make it even worse

be a man

[SuburbanFarmer]

staying in a clearly toxic relationship

isn't good for kids

either fix the relationship

or find a better one

only if it isn't possible to do either

should you settle for the current status quo

stop acting like you are doing your kids a favor

by only showing them a terrible relationship as an example to emulate

that is not the way, if it can be helped


you fucked up

but you don't have to continue to fuck up

and pretend it's some virtue

to make it even worse

be a man

Nah, the concern is more about what kind of idiot she brings in to live with my kids. I’m sure you didn’t manage even to think that far ahead, but how would you like someone smacking your kids around while you’re not there? Or worse?

[SuburbanFarmer]

The answer then is to form a relationship with whatever bar bang you knocked up? Knuckle under and make yourself love someone, no matter what?

Sounds pretty unmanly, tbh, but Lets keep that in mind whenever it happens to you lmao

The mother of your kids (plural) was a bar bang?

Meh, call it whatever, but it certainly wasn’t love. And 2 of them are twins

Happened to a whole lot of men throughout history. Some make the best of it, and most run off. I don’t run until I feel they’d be ok without me in the home.

[Smitty-48]

Nah, the concern is more about what kind of idiot she brings in to live with my kids. I’m sure you didn’t manage even to think that far ahead, but how would you like someone smacking your kids around while you’re not there? Or worse?

this woman is so bad that she would do that ?

you don't even trust her with her own kids ?

[StCapps]

staying in a clearly toxic relationship

isn't good for kids

either fix the relationship

or find a better one

only if it isn't possible to do either

should you settle for the current status quo

stop acting like you are doing your kids a favor

by only showing them a terrible relationship as an example to emulate

that is not the way, if it can be helped


you fucked up

but you don't have to continue to fuck up

and pretend it's some virtue

to make it even worse

be a man

Nah, the concern is more about what kind of idiot she brings in to live with my kids. I’m sure you didn’t manage even to think that far ahead, but how would you like someone smacking your kids around while you’re not there? Or worse?

sounds more like you are afraid she'll find a real man

who is a better example for the kids

when instead you could be that man yourself

and show them a good example of a relationship to emulate

you're just too much of a pussy to do so

the man is the leader, not some basket case of woman who resents your weakness

this relationship is your fault, take some responsibility, Captain Responsibility

try actually leading for a change, instead of forcing her to do something she hates and resents you for making her do

[Haumana]

Meh, call it whatever, but it certainly wasn’t love. And 2 of them are twins

Happened to a whole lot of men throughout history. Some make the best of it, and most run off. I don’t run until I feel they’d be ok without me in the home.

Lucky you. I didn't call it anything, you did. I'm just wondering. So are either of you out banging others? Open relationship?

[StCapps]

weak men drive women to insanity

tame the shrew, nigga

Shakespeare knows