Surviving gay... barely

[SuburbanFarmer]

Gays are confusing. Lesbians are an impossible mystery. I can't even imagine how that mentality works (or that of women in general).

For one thing, there's no 'top' or 'bottom' (I think), and they tend to be semi-manly types, or big heiffers. Yet, they fetishize the slender feminine form in their art.

Well I'm glad to see no-one is making widespread generalisations here.......

Never in my life seen a pretty lesbian. Just sayin.

[Montegriffo]

You need to get out more...

[heydaralon]

I don't understand why a guy would want to be a bottom. What could you possibly get out of that?

[Montegriffo]

Gays are confusing. Lesbians are an impossible mystery. I can't even imagine how that mentality works (or that of women in general).

For one thing, there's no 'top' or 'bottom' (I think), and they tend to be semi-manly types, or big heiffers. Yet, they fetishize the slender feminine form in their art.

Well I'm glad to see no-one is making widespread generalisations here.......

Never in my life seen a pretty lesbian. Just sayin.

I have to admit I've had a crush on Jodie Foster for as long as I can remember.

[SuburbanFarmer]

I don't understand why a guy would want to be a bottom. What could you possibly get out of that?

It seems that it's just a desire to be near manliness - same as a hetero woman. I can't say that I completely get it, but I guess it's the only physical intimacy really available. According to the author, on some level, he was hoping to be injected with manliness... But I have no idea how much this plays into most of the gay mentality.

[Speaker to Animals]

There are some cute lesbians where I live. But bisexual women are not typically butch anyway. I think it's a completely different dynamic.

As far as most women being bisexual to some extent, I just say that after observing them for so long. I don't know how to prove it, but I often see that attraction body language in them directed towards other women. They tend to redirect it, maybe even unconsciously, into admiration, solidarity, etc. The prettier women sometimes redirect their attraction into hostility towards the woman they are attracted to. The way women relate to one another seems to come down to either solidarity or competitive hostility. Female-to-female sexual relationships are probably the same way.

Again, don't pile on me with insults and criticisms. I said I don't know how to prove it and this is just from my own personal observations.

[SuburbanFarmer]

There are some cute lesbians where I live. But bisexual women are not typically butch anyway. I think it's a completely different dynamic.

As far as most women being bisexual to some extent, I just say that after observing them for so long. I don't know how to prove it, but I often see that attraction body language in them directed towards other women. They tend to redirect it, maybe even unconsciously, into admiration, solidarity, etc. The prettier women sometimes redirect their attraction into hostility towards the woman they are attracted to. The way women relate to one another seems to come down to either solidarity or competitive hostility. Female-to-female sexual relationships are probably the same way.

Again, don't pile on me with insults and criticisms. I said I don't know how to prove it and this is just from my own personal observations.

I think I'd agree with all of that.

Side note: This is the most civil conversation I can remember having on the MHF. I think we've been starving for new topics to discuss.

[Fife]

[doc_loliday]

Yeah, a lot of chicks are a few drinks away from a lesbo experience, doesn't make em lesbos tho.

[Ex-California]

Jesus Christ that is a disturbing article