The first step is recognizing that you aren't God. When you catch yourself comparing how God works or what God does to what you think, you've got to stop and back up.Nukedog wrote:1) God knows every outcome therefore giving you some "test" means he gives a fuck how you will perform
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That's the mistake I see people make more than probably anything else. They say something like, "I wouldn't let kids die, but kids die, therefor there either isn't a god, or he's bad," and they completely miss the part where they equated themselves with the Creator of the universe, despite the fact that their perceived omniscience doesn't prevent them from stumping their toes on the furniture in the dark.
It seemed like a simple enough lesson when I learned it when I was little, but apparently a lot of people don't fully grasp where they really stand as a mortal compared to God. It's some serious hubris to believe that God is supposed to comport to what your puny mortal brain thinks, or else He isn't real.
The issue of pre-determination versus free will falls into this category. When you find yourself judging the merits of the options, as a mortal confined to one point in time at any given moment, unable to travel within time, unable to exist in multiple points in time simultaneously, and ultimately restricted to a tiny sliver of points in time before you die, yet you think you're equipped to discern and decide the truths of eternity past and present, you've seriously overestimated your abilities.