Kath wrote:I agree it's not that simple, but this is a problem for me. We have so many children who need love, guidance, support, etc. It breaks my heart.Speaker to Animals wrote: There are plenty of older children with a lot of baggage that nobody wants to adopt.
That said, I do wish more women would opt for adoption. Abortion is a horrible choice, but it is the mother's choice.
It does stink. It's been like this for a long time. I doubt you will have any trouble at all adopting out a healthy newborn. There are so many more couples who want a healthy newborn than actual newborns placed for adoption in America, that people are spending upwards of fifty grand adopting foreign babies.
Nor is everybody prepared to adopt a kid with a huge amount of emotional and psychological damage.