Smitty's last post was Feb 25th, should we put his face on a milk carton?

[Martin Hash]

That’s what I thought too until I actually took the wife dancing.

I even told her I would go to a Dinner Theater with her and set a date.

Thirdly, I insisted we should go out and she wear her jewelry.

These are all simple things that were up to me to initiate.

[DBTrek]

Nice to see you guys setting a good example for the jaded motherf*ckers in this place.
Take notes, kiddos.

VALUE your relationships.
Put effort into that shit, and make it work.
You'll grow old, drink whiskey, get laid, be loved while you live, and mourned when you pass.
Or, you know ... keep marching toward that cold, cold, sad little unmarked grave that no one gives a fuck about.

Your call, really.

[Smitty-48]

My wife is German, she just likes to work, and work out, then she just wants to Netflix n' chill.

She dances while she is cooking in the kitchen, and I just do the rock away.

[Martin Hash]

When you come visit us, we’re going dancing, so you arm up.

p.s. I’m not kidding. Same for DB and his Ol’ Lady when they come by.

[Smitty-48]

We dance at weddings, we've got one coming up, young lad who used to work for me is getting married in a couple months.

That's when we get all dolled up and hit the dance floor, weddings are a special occasion, we party down on those blue moons.

[Smitty-48]

Young lad is having a stag as well, at Mohawk Raceway, that will be fun too, guys night out.

[Smitty-48]

Bear in mind, I grew up in the real deal 6ix, with all the VIP club connects, I've danced many the night away, and partied with celebs.

But like I say, when I saw my wife, it was Dorothy Gale, love at first sight, and from that moment on, I just wanted to settle down with her, Netflix n' Chill

[Smitty-48]

VALUE your relationships.
Put effort into that shit, and make it work.
You'll grow old, drink whiskey, get laid, be loved while you live, and mourned when you pass.

Indeed, a noble and beautiful woman to have you and hold you and walk you to the grave, is what it's all about. Nothing else matters in the end.

Even your children, are just extensions of this woman, even your children, will leave you in the end, too busy finding their own mates, your wife is your life, without a wife, what were you on this planet for? Apex predator male, without a mate, what was the point?

A couple days ago, blue jay arrived atop a tree in my yard, chirping, chirping, chirping for a mate. It was a lonely sound, I was rooting for him. Nobody wants to die alone, not even the birds.

[Smitty-48]

That’s what I thought too until I actually took the wife dancing.

I even told her I would go to a Dinner Theater with her and set a date.

Thirdly, I insisted we should go out and she wear her jewelry.

These are all simple things that were up to me to initiate.

Yeah, but, in fairness, you're also a multimillionaire.

If I was a one, my wife would prolly just party all the time too

Franky, I'm just happy to have clawed my way out of the ghetto to be a land owner living by my own means.

That's a win for a trailer park boy like me.

I commanded men in the army, so I have no desire to be the boss anymore.

For my wife however, it took much longer for her to get to be the boss, so now she revels in it.

Thing is, the boss is never finished work, the boss works all the time.

So when she gets home, she has no energy left to go dancing, hence why Netflix n' Chill.

I already lived the dream of being in charge, my role now is supporting my wife so she gets to as well.

If she said lets get dolled up and go out, I am of course at her disposal.

But it's like she's the one whose in the army now, all work and PT.

So like me back when I was in the army, she passes out early and often, like 2130 hrs.

[Smitty-48]

It's funny how when I was a boy, my parents made me go to bed at 2130, and I railed against it because I wanted to be a big boy who stayed up late.

Then when I was at my biggest, snap your neck like a Pez dispenser with my bare hands big boy, I wished I could go to bed at 2130 instead of going without any sleep at all.

That's where my wife is right now, when she's not working, or working out, she just desires sleep.

Her King Sized bed and her Calvin Klein Egyptian cotton sheets, is her bliss, forget the dancing.

It is cozy tho. I don't have to sleep much anymore, but when I do, King Sized Egyptian cotton for the win