What happened

[Haumana]

my wife has one lifelong friend

they are inseparable, they have been together since childhood

when my wife is not with me, she is with her lady in waiting

I call them the Ladies Who Lunch

that woman will be my wife's companion after I am gone, I know

My wife has that too. And a couple of cousins that I call the the "Bitches of Eastwick" and they just laugh and nod.

Bitches of Eastwick, here.

[Smitty-48]

my wife has one lifelong friend

they are inseparable, they have been together since childhood

when my wife is not with me, she is with her lady in waiting

I call them the Ladies Who Lunch

that woman will be my wife's companion after I am gone, I know

My wife has that too. And a couple of cousins that I call the the "Bitches of Eastwick" and they just laugh and nod.

Bitches of Eastwick, here.

wow

that is glorious

those are beautiful women

look at the light in those eyes

[Haumana]

My wife has that too. And a couple of cousins that I call the the "Bitches of Eastwick" and they just laugh and nod.

Bitches of Eastwick, here.

wow

that is glorious

those are beautiful women

look at the light in those eyes
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Right?????
And, we are the black sheep clan. All of us are the outliers in our families. That's where we meet. I am blessed. Wife is the middle one.

[Smitty-48]

Right?????
I am blessed. Wife is the middle one.

they are all stunning, you are indeed blessed

faces of angels

you're doing something very right for women like that to be rallying around you

[Smitty-48]

Wife is the middle one.

brother, those eyes are transfixing, and I can see girlishness combined with the strength

that is a beautiful older woman

I do judge a man by the woman on his arm, and I am impressed

[StCapps]

impressive

/hat tip

[Smitty-48]

impressive

/hat tip

to find an ageless beauty who you cannot bear to be parted from, and who cannot bear to be parted from you

that is the pinnacle, the top of the male dominance hierarchy, happiness itself

this is why I push you hard, it's not coming down on you, all orders are development related towards this goal

before you can be a leader, you have to learn to follow a leader

then you will know why you follow, and only then can you take command to lead others

my role as instructor, is to train my own replacement, with failing hands pass the torch to thee

thus is the stuff civilization is made of

[DrYouth]

So this thread has shaped up.

Women have their issues... and feminism has its follies...

Not going to deny any of that.

But finding a good woman and treating her right is the core to male happiness.

Those are beautiful ladies Haumama


And I know I have not done right by my woman at all times.... and I know that meant I was living with my crimes.


But what I did wrong, I made right.

I did that part without Smitty's help.


But then it was time to step out of the martyr role.... and step back up... stop bellyaching and be a man.


Smitty called me out on my martyrdom.

And I didn't like being called out.... I didn't want to see it.

Smitty has his issues...

And he got that thing right.


A friend calls you on your shit... Smitty has that side of friendship down.

He fails other places.... but not there.... not on that one.

He gets a 50% on friendship.... that's for sure.

[Smitty-48]

we simply do not have the same definition of friendship

but moreover, friendship is not an aspiration, simply an association

the only thing a man needs to aspire to, is honour

from there, honour shall guide him, by the grace of God, and his own sheer will

[Smitty-48]

He fails other places.... but not there.... not on that one.

failure is simply growth, you must fail many times before you succeed at anything

I know you think I am heartless, cruel perhaps

but that's not what it is

of course I want to give you another chance

but I cannot do that

I maintain the standard, because men have died to maintain this standard, my friends have died for it

it is only an elite unit if the standard is unimpeachable

it is not worth being friends with those who would throw their standards away for a bleeding heart

if I give you another chance in lieu of the standard, then I am the one who is not worthy

you do not understand finality, men die trying to be like me, I owe it to them to hold the line