How Did Marriage Become a Mark of Privilege

[SilverEagle]

Here we fucking go.

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/09/25/upsh ... ilege.html

[The Conservative]

Here we fucking go.

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/09/25/upsh ... ilege.html

If you need to ask that, then you haven't been paying attention.

[SilverEagle]

Here we fucking go.

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/09/25/upsh ... ilege.html

If you need to ask that, then you haven't been paying attention.

Fuck off you annoying piece of shit. This thread is for discussion and not your dumbass remarks.

[Speaker to Animals]

Note how in in the end they still managed to blame it all on men.

One reason marriage is on decline: because when topics like child support and alimony come up, most people still don't automatically vomit at the thought that they once defended what amounts to slavery and the destruction of children's lives for money.

[The Conservative]

Here we fucking go.

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/09/25/upsh ... ilege.html

If you need to ask that, then you haven't been paying attention.

Fuck off you annoying piece of shit. This thread is for discussion and not your dumbass remarks.

Kettle, fucking black...

The main reason of that Marriage has been a sign of privilege is because of the liberal mindset of victimhood. The Democrat base has become poor, ignorant, and slothful, they expect to be given everything, and want of nothing.

So when someone has to work for something like a job, it becomes oppressive because they have to answer to "the man". So this was going to be a foregone conclusion, for who wants to marry someone who can't handle or hold a job?

This mindset affects minorities, and of course the SJW groups out there in spades, so of course you are going to be considered an elitist snob for marrying someone because you are more financially secure than someone who is nothing more than a professional whiner and Beta-Male.

Again, if you need to ask this, you haven't been paying attention.

[PartyOf5]

This part is is bit amusing and a bit sad:

“Women don’t want to take a risk on somebody who’s not going to be able to provide anything,” said Sharon Sassler, a sociologist at Cornell who published “Cohabitation Nation: Gender, Class, and the Remaking of Relationships” with Amanda Jayne Miller last month.

As marriage has declined, though, childbearing has not, which means that more children are living in families without two parents and the resources they bring.

Women won't risk marrying someone who can't provide anything, but a good chunk of those same women are more than willing to have a kid (or kids) with them.

That's not privilege, it's making poor life choices. These poor choices are being perpetuated through generations, but they are still choices.

[The Conservative]

This part is is bit amusing and a bit sad:

“Women don’t want to take a risk on somebody who’s not going to be able to provide anything,” said Sharon Sassler, a sociologist at Cornell who published “Cohabitation Nation: Gender, Class, and the Remaking of Relationships” with Amanda Jayne Miller last month.

As marriage has declined, though, childbearing has not, which means that more children are living in families without two parents and the resources they bring.

Women won't risk marrying someone who can't provide anything, but a good chunk of those same women are more than willing to have a kid (or kids) with them.

That's not a privilege, it's making poor life choices. These poor choices are being perpetuated through generations, but they are still choices.

Yup. My wife is a stay at home mom, for now, once my son is old enough, she will be going back to work, working mom hours, etc... The point is that you shouldn't have a kid if you can't afford it. Hell I know I couldn't when we first started out, so I worked my ass off to get the job I did. Now we barely make it paycheck to paycheck, but we can afford to have her stay home with our son so he can be raised right.

Having a child isn't just about having a husband, or a wife, it's choices we make to get there. I wouldn't change my life for anything right now (except that I would love to make more money) but realistically, a little bit of pain for long-term gain is worth it.

[C-Mag]

Oh, this article is filled with all kinds of good quotes

"Currently, 26 percent of poor adults, 39 percent of working-class adults and 56 percent of middle- and upper-class adults ages 18 to 55 are married"


"the reason for the decline: Unemployed men are less likely to be seen as marriage material.
Women don’t want to take a risk on somebody who’s not going to be able to provide anything,” said Sharon Sassler, a sociologist

"Labor market changes made men less marriageable"


“Women say, ‘If he’s not offering money or assets, why make it legal?’ ”


“When you have job decline in a big way, that fabric unravels. So even if you bring the jobs back, once the damage is done, it might take a while to repair.”


As I continually learn that everything in the US must be viewed through Race. I looked up the Racial demographics, so let's get that in here.
http://datacenter.kidscount.org/data/ta ... 13/432,431

Woo Hoo, Go Whitey. Only 25% of White kids are raised in single parent homes.

After reading this I came to the conclusion women are saying, I'm only getting married if you are willing to support me financially. Otherwise, I will just keep looking until I find that sugar daddy.

[Speaker to Animals]

I told you guys. Women are attracted to resources. The minute you get laid off is when you are at most risk of getting broadsided with a divorce. Women are not loyal. Never were.

[SilverEagle]

Oh, this article is filled with all kinds of good quotes

"Currently, 26 percent of poor adults, 39 percent of working-class adults and 56 percent of middle- and upper-class adults ages 18 to 55 are married"


"the reason for the decline: Unemployed men are less likely to be seen as marriage material.
Women don’t want to take a risk on somebody who’s not going to be able to provide anything,” said Sharon Sassler, a sociologist

"Labor market changes made men less marriageable"


“Women say, ‘If he’s not offering money or assets, why make it legal?’ ”


“When you have job decline in a big way, that fabric unravels. So even if you bring the jobs back, once the damage is done, it might take a while to repair.”


As I continually learn that everything in the US must be viewed through Race. I looked up the Racial demographics, so let's get that in here.
http://datacenter.kidscount.org/data/ta ... 13/432,431

Woo Hoo, Go Whitey. Only 25% of White kids are raised in single parent homes.

After reading this I came to the conclusion women are saying, I'm only getting married if you are willing to support me financially. Otherwise, I will just keep looking until I find that sugar daddy.

“Women say, ‘If he’s not offering money or assets, why make it legal?’ ”

This is my favorite quote. It's very true. I'm now thinking about my wife and my friends wives. I know half of them would leave.