I agree that it's a bad thing. But I don't see a good solution. And I refuse to believe that women are actively pursuing that 'lifestyle' for the hell of it.Speaker to Animals wrote:GrumpyCatFace wrote:Why, because he can afford more daycare?Speaker to Animals wrote:Fuck. I shouldn't even bother. But..
I know more than a few single mothers. Do you know what they need most of all? Fucking day care. That's what they need. The all want to work but they are trapped in part-time jobs and trying to find people to watch their kids for them. If they had day care, they wouldn't need all this other shit.
I don't know why this has to be spelled out for people. But if you want to really help these women, then let's start talking about day care, pre-school, and after school programs. Those three things solve the fucking problem.
If they don't solve the problem, then all likelihood, the kids need to be with dad.
I agree that daycare is absurdly expensive. But I'm not sticking my kid in a state-run daycare facility. Might as well make him an altar boy.
These kids are already pretty well fucked. They are the kids of single mothers. There exists no other demographic factor that will fuck your life up worse than being raised by a single mother. Not even being black comes close when you untangle the data (most of the blacks burning cities down are the products of single mothers).
Single motherhood is probably the biggest social cancer our society faces today. It's a huge problem. We need to stop funding it.
That said, there are undeniably cases of this. I'm familiar with a few. A real class-act got ahold of my gf's brother, and holds his daughter for ransom on a regular basis. Suffice it to say, there are a number of us eagerly awaiting her body to be found in a puddle of vomit.