StCapps
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by StCapps » Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:23 am
Smitty-48 wrote: ↑ Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:19 am
StCapps wrote: ↑ Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:16 am
Maybe, depends on how she reacts when I ask if she has boyfriend or how she lets her availability slip before I ask her, but I'm pretty sure I am going to have to ask straight up before I get an answer
If she says she has one, just say "I had to ask"
If she says she doesn't, then you're Patty Mahomes, gotta call your own play
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by Smitty-48 » Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:27 am
StCapps wrote: ↑ Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:23 am
Smitty-48 wrote: ↑ Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:19 am
StCapps wrote: ↑ Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:16 am
Maybe, depends on how she reacts when I ask if she has boyfriend or how she lets her availability slip before I ask her, but I'm pretty sure I am going to have to ask straight up before I get an answer
If she says she has one, just say "I had to ask"
If she says she doesn't, then you're Patty Mahomes, gotta call your own play
Red Kingdom
Missouruh pride
Superbowl Champs
VIDEO
Shoot Lasers From My Eyes
I Invented Curly Fires
VIDEO
You're not asking to make babies with her
Just asking for a date
Dinner & Movie, no funny business, no strings attached
In my day we did it all the time
Ain't nothing to it
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StCapps
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by StCapps » Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:32 am
Smitty-48 wrote: ↑ Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:27 am
You're not asking to make babies with her
Just asking for a date
Dinner & Movie, no funny business, no strings attached
In my day we did it all the time
Ain't nothing to it
VIDEO
*yip*
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by Smitty-48 » Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:33 am
Make sure you say it "can I treat you to dinner and a movie, no funny business, no strings attached"
Make it clear that it is a date, your treat, not lovers, but not the friend zone neither
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by Smitty-48 » Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:37 am
Short & sweet, don't talk, just ask for the deal and let her react
Say it like I say it.
"Can I treat you to dinner and a movie, no funny business, no strings attached ?"
Don't say more, don't say less, make it a binary proposition, are you in, or nah ?
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StCapps
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by StCapps » Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:40 am
Smitty-48 wrote: ↑ Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:37 am
Short & sweet, don't talk, just ask for the deal and let her react
Say it like I say it.
"Can I treat you to dinner and a movie, no funny business, no strings attached ?"
Don't say more, don't say less, make it a binary proposition, are you in, or nah ?
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by Smitty-48 » Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:41 am
StCapps wrote: ↑ Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:40 am
Smitty-48 wrote: ↑ Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:37 am
Short & sweet, don't talk, just ask for the deal and let her react
Say it like I say it.
"Can I treat you to dinner and a movie, no funny business, no strings attached ?"
Don't say more, don't say less, make it a binary proposition, are you in, or nah ?
10-4
If she says no, same-same "I had to ask"
Then just wait out, because she might change her mind
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by StCapps » Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:44 am
Smitty-48 wrote: ↑ Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:41 am
StCapps wrote: ↑ Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:40 am
Smitty-48 wrote: ↑ Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:37 am
Short & sweet, don't talk, just ask for the deal and let her react
Say it like I say it.
"Can I treat you to dinner and a movie, no funny business, no strings attached ?"
Don't say more, don't say less, make it a binary proposition, are you in, or nah ?
10-4
If she says no, same-same "I had to ask"
Then just wait out, because she might change her mind
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This one especially, she might say no out shyness first, be kicking herself for it and change her mind
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by Smitty-48 » Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:47 am
StCapps wrote: ↑ Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:44 am
This one especially, she might say no out shyness first, be kicking herself for it and change her mind
Sometimes when they know that you like them, that gets them thinking about it
So you have at least planted the suggestion in her mind
If she likes you, it could open up another approach later
So act disappointed, like you are feeling the pain of it, but keep it light & sweet, no pressure
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by StCapps » Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:48 am
Smitty-48 wrote: ↑ Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:47 am
StCapps wrote: ↑ Mon Apr 20, 2020 1:44 am
This one especially, she might say no out shyness first, be kicking herself for it and change her mind
Sometimes when they know that you like them, that gets them thinking about it
So you have at least planted the suggestion in her mind
If she likes you, it could open up another approach later
So act disappointed, like you are feeling the pain of it, but keep it light & sweet, no pressure
I was going to play it that way anyway, but thanks for reinforcing that it's a good plan nonetheless
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