Despite the drive by some to make this moment all about "gynocentrism", I'd like to post this here to illustrate what I think this cultural moment is really more about.
https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/201 ... stein.html
This amazing op-ed by Salma Hayek is some of my favorite writing on the subject because the sexual harassment she endured is actually
not the focus of the piece. It is the fact that after repeatedly refusing Weinstein's advances, he made it abundantly clear that career opportunities she had been promised by him were no longer on the table. To avoid obvious quid pro quo sexual harassment, he then allowed her to get back her own work that she had provided to him if she basically jumped over a set of impossible hurdles, which she did. Then he set about making her and her female director's lives miserable on the project, and how tough they had to be to get through all the damage he kept doing to the project (which he later made tons of money on). But it shows how this comes part and parcel with an abuse of power by these types of garbage men that can have severe, on-going, and lasting effects on women, and forces them to do more to be seen as less,or simply to be seen as any amount of talent rather than just a body.
She also writes really well about how she also covered for him, because he had so much power over her and she actually need what little support she could get from him, as did many other women in the industry, and how the culture of this puts pressure on us all, including victims and non-garbage men, to cover up and smooth things over for the men who act this way, or allow other to just not notice. She also is careful to note that he had good qualities too - intelligence and talent, and was sometimes kind. The fact that these guys treat different people differently, or act differently at different times, or simply are not one-dimensional monsters so they CAN fly under the radar of those they don't directly victimize, is an important point.
I find it very credible that Trump is in this exact vein - I am sure he also hates to be told "no" more than anything, and not just about sexual advances.