I'll tell you how it worked with the Nazis
Hitler was the Alpha Male for the whole nation, all other men were beneath him
Hitler was the only sex symbol, this is why he wouldn't marry Eva Braun
the degeneracy was that marriages were state property, and Hitler was the National Husband
so you reach the point where Magda Goebbels kills her own children rather than let them live without Hitler
so it can take different forms,
but the key is breaking down the traditional family structure and replacing it with the state
I mean, I wish I had better news, but America is exhibiting all the hallmarks, it's not even subtle now