That part is most infuriating.If he’s all that you say, he may be able to forgive you due to the stressful circumstances that caused your low period and reckless actions.
If he has a lick of sense he will bail on this whore immediately and let her live with the consequences of her fucked up behavior.
Note how the female does not hold this woman accountable for a damned thing and expects the "good man" to bear all the pain and costs. If this were a Dear Mike Rowe letter with a similarly fucked up situation created by a man's shit decisions, how exactly do you think the response would differ? I can tell you right now: "Well, Bob, it sounds like you fucked up and have to own your poor choice. Your wife will probably leave you. You have a moral obligation to be in your child's life as a father, but the woman you impregnated will probably rather alienate you from your child while extracting half your income. Good luck."
Women for some reason are totally unwilling to take accountability, or assign accountability to other women, for a damned thing. What the fucking fuck? That article is infuriating.