Wow... just wow.ooky wrote:Again, sorry for the hopping in and out - I am least busy on Fridays but still have to do a lot of work so can't sit on for extended periods. But I find this comment really interesting (the rest of the post where you put all blame on "leftists" for the complete breakdown of society because we don't like racism, sexism, homophobia etc less so). It essentially echoes a series of comments by Michael Ian Black (copied from a twitter thread):Speaker to Animals wrote:Aside from the hypocrisy of these people wanting to ban things they don't personally own or care about, while defending much more dangerous cultural practices they do partake in, another form of hypocrisy really pisses me off: alienation.
Michael Ian Black
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Feb 14
"Deeper even than the gun problem is this: boys are broken.
Until we fix men, we need to fix the gun problem.
The last 50 years redefined womanhood: women were taught they can be anything. No commensurate movement for men who are still generally locked into the same rigid, outdated model of masculinity and it’s killing us.
If you want to hurt a man, the first thing you do is attack his masculinity. Men don’t have the language to understand masculinity as anything other than some version of a caveman because no language exists.
The language of masculinity is hopelessly entwined with sexuality, and the language of sexuality in hopelessly entwined with power, agency, and self-worth.
So men (and boys before that) don’t have language for modes of expression that don’t readily conform to traditional standards. To step outside those norms is to take a risk most of us are afraid to take. As a result, a lot of guys spend their lives terrified." (<<And I, ooky would argue, alienated from others).
"We’re terrified of being viewed as something other than men. We know ourselves to be men, but don’t know how to be our whole selves. A lot of us (me included) either shut off or experience deep shame or rage. Or all three. Again: men are terrified.
Even talking about this topic invites ridicule because it’s so scary for most men (and women). Men are adrift and nobody is talking about it and nobody’s doing anything about it and it’s killing us."
It also goes to what several experts are saying - some minority of mass shooters are truly mentally ill, as in they are delusional with irrational obsessions. But many are not actually "crazy", just psychopathic - they do not feel empathy and they are ok with hurting and killing things, sometimes for fun or because they like it. That's not really the same as mental illness, at least as we commonly mean it, for one thing because they do not feel this state lessens their quality of life, they still understands what society considers right and wrong, they know who they are and where they are, in other words, are not coo-coo. But more than anything, the thing most associated with mass shooters are anger issues and extremism.
Fla. shooting suspect had a history of explosive anger, depression, killing animals
Sounds like he is referring to personal demons instead of some society wide problem.