No worse than being told you can't be someplace (such as a common area) because it is someone's "safe place"... sorry, but to me that is exactly the same as being told to get to the back of the bus.Cid wrote:Being polite and having manners is a two way street. And don't care who are, being politely asked to move to the back of the bus is worse than whatever goes on "safe spaces."
That is why I don't tolerate those people in my life. Don't come to me whining, if you want to complain, fine, but also have a solution, or ask for help, otherwise leave me alone. I have my own family to take care of, I don't need an adopted bitch-o-matic.Cid wrote: And people have always been pissed off when they don't win, and they always get pissed off when they don't get their way. People don't generally hear themselves when they're whining because they're doing the whining, but they sure as fuck hear it when other people whine. Hell there were people during the depression that thought it wasn't that bad (the super privileged people).
It was acceptable in public before the internet, because what you said stayed with your circle of friends, today with the internet, what you say around your friends can go viral.Cid wrote: I mean there are people pissed they can't make a rape joke publicly on the internet, like that is something that was perfectly acceptable to say in society prior to the internet. So, while I think the mainstream media view of safe spaces as these soft crybaby playpens with puppies and kittens is hilarious and entertaining, I've no fucking clue what a safe space looks like except a place where you can't say blatantly offensive things.
A safe place is a place where you can't theoretically get your "feelings hurt" from the average person walking down the street. That is what they have become. What they were originally were places for people to get together to think about ideas in peace without judgement from the outside world. That, when I was young, we called the library.
No need to apologize, I'm not a buttercup.Cid wrote: And about the safety pin, TMI dude, you used as a rhetorical device and I thought it was disingenuous, but I apologize.