Dark Days Ahead

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Re: Dark Days Ahead

Post by Smitty-48 » Sun Apr 25, 2021 2:22 pm

see I think as long as you are not repulsive, it all comes down to sales technique

being able to close the deal smoothly, no awkwardness, no creepiness

but guys these days have a lot of habits & characteristics which are actually repulsive to girls

what can you do with a guy in his thirties who is still like the dorky kid in high school ?

I can't blame desirable girls for taking a hard pass on that

what is so hard about hitting the gym to get in shape, grooming yourself & getting a wardrobe, like a man ?

if you sit around eating cheetos and playing video games like teenagers, women won't want to fuck you

who knew ?
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Re: Dark Days Ahead

Post by doc_loliday » Sun Apr 25, 2021 2:32 pm

Charisma will always be invaluable, but the dirty white boy thing stops working after your early twenties. Only younger women will go for potential.

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Re: Dark Days Ahead

Post by Smitty-48 » Sun Apr 25, 2021 2:39 pm

doc_loliday wrote:
Sun Apr 25, 2021 2:32 pm
Charisma will always be invaluable, but the dirty white boy thing stops working after your early twenties. Only younger women will go for potential.
I'm not pretty, but I'm sexy

sexiness is just about make the transition from "cute" to "hot"

I'm not inhibited, I can make that move smoothly

a lot of guys are actually putting girls off by being hyper masculine

no feminine side, they don't know how to seduce, they have their emotional guard up, they're sexually repressed

that just comes off as being awkward & creepy
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Re: Dark Days Ahead

Post by doc_loliday » Sun Apr 25, 2021 2:45 pm

Smitty-48 wrote:
Sun Apr 25, 2021 2:39 pm
a lot of guys are actually putting girls off by being hyper masculine

no feminine side, they don't know how to seduce, they have their emotional guard up, they're sexually repressed

that just comes off as being awkward & creepy
I mean, that's where DSL was wrong. No polarity.

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Post by doc_loliday » Sun Apr 25, 2021 2:47 pm

Clay Spenser. Jacked, but still smooth.

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Re: Dark Days Ahead

Post by Smitty-48 » Sun Apr 25, 2021 2:49 pm

doc_loliday wrote:
Sun Apr 25, 2021 2:45 pm
Smitty-48 wrote:
Sun Apr 25, 2021 2:39 pm
a lot of guys are actually putting girls off by being hyper masculine

no feminine side, they don't know how to seduce, they have their emotional guard up, they're sexually repressed

that just comes off as being awkward & creepy
I mean, that's where DSL was wrong. No polarity.
well if you are completely shredded, that will get you girls where I come from

but for the average guy who is not prison yard hard, just being sexy is an easier path
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Post by Hastur » Mon Apr 26, 2021 7:44 am

Humor is underrated. Being funny attracts the right kind of girls. A lot of people have no sense of humor. Stay away from them.
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Re: Dark Days Ahead

Post by Martin Hash » Mon Apr 26, 2021 7:49 am

Hastur wrote:
Mon Apr 26, 2021 7:44 am
Humor is underrated. Being funny attracts the right kind of girls. A lot of people have no sense of humor. Stay away from them.
I've noticed that most in The Left don't have a sense of humor. It's one of the observations that make me think Leftism requires a lack of self-awareness, a critical indication of a lack of wisdom in general.
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Re: Dark Days Ahead

Post by Smitty-48 » Mon Apr 26, 2021 10:07 am

Hastur wrote:
Mon Apr 26, 2021 7:44 am
Humor is underrated. Being funny attracts the right kind of girls. A lot of people have no sense of humor. Stay away from them.
humour is actually the most important thing, girls just want to have fun, keep them laughing

but it's got to be sexy, you can't kill the mood by trying to be the funny guy

it's like Capps goes into stand up mode, telling the chick one liners, looking for yuks

it needs to be more subtle than that, playful, disarming, provocative, sexy

little bit dangerous, sorry not sorry, seductive

she's laughing ; because she's nervous, twitterpated

she is backing up against the wall, you are advancing towards her

you are there to take her, she is going to submit, sorry not sorry
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Re: Dark Days Ahead

Post by Haumana » Mon Apr 26, 2021 11:04 am

Hastur wrote:
Mon Apr 26, 2021 7:44 am
Humor is underrated. Being funny attracts the right kind of girls. A lot of people have no sense of humor. Stay away from them.
Self deprecation too. Taking one's self too seriously is a negative.